My Fulfilling Weekend

Yo. Peeps.
I had a satisfying weekend, I should say.

On Saturday, my husband and I sent my two lovely cats to the vet at Geylang East (very very nice and caring lady vet & co-workers there.. I recommend it. Ask me where.)
Patchy, a tri-color normal cat, complied easily getting into the portable animal carrier. She was really a good girl, sitting in the carrier as tho it's her own home. Pepper, on the other hand, was really a tough feline to handle! We tried calming her down, feeding her treats, and tricking her into thinking it was her cat bed. Still she struggled and caused scratches to my husband's arm and also almost bite my hand. But she's okay when we managed to put her in the carrier.

She was drugged at the vet's clinic as they need to tend to her nails, ears, and her cough. She had the cough quite some time now but I just couldn't find the time to bring her to the vet. They had to drug her mildly just to keep her calm. If they didn't, she'd be running wild and scratching everyone in sight thinking they wanted to hurt her.

The vet was a very nice lady in her mid 40s. She talked to my cats, gave them their vaccinations and treated my Pepper for her coughs. Now I gotta get myself or my sister to feed Pepper her medication everyday for the next 7 days or so.

I have to bring them back to the clinic next month as their vaccination was long overdue and the vet had to give them boosters next month. Sigh.. more money... but I tell u, it's worth it to see my cats healthy and happy. No children yet, so cats are my kids.

It was hectic, then after that we had to carry Pepper all the way to my mom's office as she's having a meeting and would like me to be involved too. Patchy was already at home as she only needs vaccination in the morning but Pepper was put under observation so we had to collect her in the evening right before my mom's meeting with her staff and freelancers.

After the meeting, we went home and had a nice dinner together and took a rest. My sweet hubby suggested we go out the next day, buying stuff to improve our bedroom... After all, the bedroom is our private sanctuary... we need it to be cozy and comfortable as much as possible.

Sunday morning came, we sleep in late till 11am.. but woke up, had breakfast, washed up and went to Ikea to buy some shelvings and stuffs to redecorate our room. We helped around with the shifting of some office computers from my parents' old office to the new, salvage some old stuff to give a friend and also asked that friend for help to move some stuff we bought from Ikea, which couldn't fit in our car.

With some help, we rearranged our furnitures, rewired all the cables for the tv, computers, modems, wireless routers, dvd players, xbox console, stereo speakers & subwoofers and etc. phew! Set up our shelving and viola! we have more free space in our cozy, romantic room. It was hard work but it paid off.

At night, we were invited to a BBQ gathering at nearby jetty by my uncle but we passed on it as we were too exhausted. My parents went on with it and they had the best time spent, which was also quality time for them to spend with each other. It's been quite a while since they've hang out with friends over a bbq pit.

My husband paid his ultimate attention to me these past few days, not missing a beat. He is SO sweet. Not like what other people think about him.

He's the sweetest, most loving and attentive guy I've ever met among all those 'buayas' and 'monkeys' I've dated before. They're sooooo EEEEEEEWWWWW! They think of nothing else but treating women like their slaves. I hate that... and especially the ones with GIANT EGOS!
But enough about that.. Most importantly, I had the best week with my husband. Spending quality time with your loved ones is the most important. I treat this week as special.... Refreshing, replenishing and renewing love between my husband and I.

My husband told me we can spend time like this forever till we die.

He told me that with or without children, he would be with me forever and nothing can break us apart. He wants to spend the rest of his life with me and NOONE else. Told me that first time he saw me and till now he has never stopped loving me and now our love has grown stronger and stronger despite the ups and downs and trials this marriage has brought upon us. He said he'll do just about anything to keep me happy and contented with life with him as much as possible.

Isn't that sweet?

He's the best husband ever. And I will do whatever in my power to be the best wife & best friend he could ever have.

Selfish, Immature, Bitchy People on the loose.

People are sometimes so selfish. Friends turned on you, loved onces lied to you and others just want what they can't have.

I've come to know some people who call themselves friends but they turned on you and do things unimaginable to you right under your nose and you'll never realise it till you found out from other people, feel humiliated and betrayed.

Some are so immature that even if they reached their prime years and had their own family life, they would still destroy other's marriages by being selfish and conceited just because they can't have what they want.

For instance, a friend of mine dated this girl before she chose to marry another. He decided to stop seeing her as she's to be married to someone else. They're still friends, of course.
And so she got married, lead a happy life with her husband. But few years passed and they still could not concieve. Her husband starts his philandering ways and work late through the nights and she was left all alone.... Seeking attention from everyone else and telling EVERYONE she knows how lonely she feels at home and how she suspected her husband of having affairs outside. Introducing to everyone her husband through the net and impressions he gave and her complaints have led friends to believe that he really hurt her and friends took pity on her.

She concieved but her pregnancy failed and she complained again that she can't cry in front of her husband as her husband tend to put down her feelings and hates it when she cries.
Again she asked for pity from friends and all believed her and gave her the deepest sympathy. Again she asked friends for advice on her philandering husband. But by now, she's getting frustrated because her friend, whom she dumped to marry her present husband, is giving HIS wife all the attention and all the luxuries in life and gave his wife all the love she needs.
And so this LONELY woman, feeling jealous and unsatisfied, decided to seek attention from other guys. Going out with her ex-boyfriends, single or married, and seeking their sympathy while all at the same time blinding their wives by being their friend too.

She seek sympathy when she's depressed caused by her failed pregnancy, she seeked sympathy through her office colleagues and they all chipped in to help, not knowing that they'll fall victim to her hyperactive sexual habits.

She can't get enuf from her philandering husband and so she goes out and hunts for her victims... weak men who sympathises with her not knowing her evil ways under ALL those holy appearances.

She seduces them, making the impression that she likes them, made use of them to send her here and there, made use of their weaknesses to feed her sexual desires which was left unattended by her husband. She made them think that their wives was not as good as her. And underneath all that pretence, she just aims to satisfy her sexual desires, become the centre of attention, and to satisfy her greed of not getting the man she wanted and losing them to another friend.

Acting decent and holy in front of husband and family members, she got away with being the unfaithful wife.

But, a warning, when her husband found out her unfaithful ways, and he denies his philandering ways, and she felt threatened that her marriage will fall, she denies that she was the victim and that the other guys are "trying to be funny" with her despite her saying 'no' to them. She covers her tracks by making known to her victims' wives that she was unsure of what it will do to their friendship if she told them of their 'unfaithful' husbands.. but she did so.

And, lo and behold, at the same time she 'regains' her husband's trust and ruins other's marriages. She will team up with the 'unfaithul husband who touches her and his wife' and also her husband, to go against the 'unfaithful husband', puts on her holy appearance, puts on her 'victim' face, and make it all seem that she's the victim.

The wives of the 'unfaithful husbands' will distrust their 'unfaithful husbands', will unknowingly trust the 'hyperly-sexually deprived victim', and unknowingly thinks that every word she said was true about their husbands.

But not all of them are taken in by her self-pity seeking, 'oh-I'm-the-victim-and-I'm-innocent' slutty ways. Some of them have played this game before, and know what she's thinking and what she will do next. After a lot of pondering and a little bit of acting, the wives of the 'unfaithful' husbands reacted back. 'Don't play with fire or you'll get burnt' is what it is. And this particular slut was playing with fire. She was playing with fire that will scald and scar for the rest of her life. She didn't know who she was dealing with.

And she will soon realise it when something dreadful will happen to her...when all the victimised guys will in turn take their revenge for ruining their lives and marriage. Just watch your back, girl.

But alas, she has failed to victimise the guy she dumped for another. Awwww... you lost a 'big fish' like twice? Guys with big cars, give all their attention to their loving wives? Awww... and you didn't get them.. you let them slip from your hands into other deserving women... Awwww... what a pity...

Awww.. and you tried to get them back thinking you can ruin their marriage so the husband will leave the wife and spend more time with you instead of your own husband who barely has time for your needs or listens to your problems... Humph! Trusting marriage between you and your husband? Talking problems out with your own husband instead of someone else's husband? Thinking that you're much better than their wives? Well, take a GOOD LOOK IN THE MIRROR, GIRL! You'll just see an OVERGROWN, OVERSIZED SEXUALLY-DEPRIVED BIMBO WHO KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT MARRIAGE AND TRUST.

Thanks to people like you, some of the 'victimised' husbands have grown to love their wives more than ever and grown to despise you more and more and even calling you a bitch or a slut who tries to ruin other's lives and marriages. In defence, she starts telling all her friends that she's the victim. DON'T BELIEVE HER! YOU'LL HAVE TO GET THE OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY BEFORE YOU JUDGE the so-called 'unfaithful' husbands OR her sympathetic plee for help for being THE 'VICTIM'.

Good luck to YOUR failing marriage, girl. Hope for the best for you... really.... NOT!!!!!
HOPE PEOPLE LIKE YOU BURN IN HELL.

ONLY GOD KNOWS AND PROTECTS THOSE WHO ARE BEING VICTIMIZED BY YOUR DECEIVING AND SINFUL ACTS OF TRYING TO DESTROY SOMEONE ELSE'S 'MASJID'. MAY YOU DESERVE THE PUNISHMENT IN HELL WHEN YOU DIE... AND HOPEFULLY SOON.. OR MAYBE GOD WANTS YOU TO MESS UP YOUR LIFE EVEN MORE BY MAKING U DO MORE SINS SO THAT YOU'LL BE FORCED TO EAT ROTTING FLESH IN THE AFTERLIFE EVERYDAY TILL END OF THE WORLD, OR EVEN THE EARTH WON'T ACCEPT YOUR DEAD BODY.

Good luck.