People are sometimes cowards...

You know.. sometimes, some people are just cowards.

Instead of talking to us and finding out what happened, they'd go around asking other people and making their own assumptions of what is going on with our lives..

Like, please, Jagalah tepi kain sendiri, instead of being overly kaypoh towards our own lives.

If we hear a friend who seemed to be sulking and seems to be in trouble, we'd approach and ask him/her what happened. If that person doesn't wanna open up to us, it means that he/she is hating us. That's fine with me. But like hell, even if we did something wrong, they could've at least confronted us instead of being cowards! Right? We can accept if we are in the wrong.. But hey! If we never do anything wrong, how can people accuse us for no reason and worse - making their own assumptions!!

Hey, like I'm not an adult and like I'm not married. I've got the right to live my own freakin life with my husband. We've got the right to stand up on our own feet and do what we want.

Just because we don't go visiting, doesn't mean that we are cutting off relationship with relatives.. Come on... How shallow thinking can u be? You all accuse us of avoiding relatives.. but do you ever consider asking us why? Do you ever consider asking your mothers if they've ever said that they hated us because we can't visit?

Do you ever consider how difficult our lives are while you all grouped together and go out with cousins and aunties together on vacations without even asking us along or consulting us?

While u all are enjoying yourselves, do you ever think that we too have feelings? Why? Why in the world would people think that we decided to avoid everyone?

Did you ever think that the problem is with my health? SOME people have cursed us not to have children of our own.. Does that mean I have to still love them somehow?

SOME people accused us of things that we never do or things that we don't know of and putting words into our mouths without even finding out the real truth. Does that mean I have to still believe in what they say?

These people are just cowards. Without even asking us directly, they ask people around us who've been living with us or are close to us, thinking that they know everything that we've gone through.

People just don't know how much I've suffered emotionally and physically until at times I just feel like jumping down from a high-rise building so that nobody else will have anything to talk bad about me behind my back.

MENGUMPAT ITU ADALAH DOSA YANG LEBIH BESAR DARI BERZINAH! So I consider you all BERZINAH seratus kali ganda!

Go ahead. Talk about me and my husband all u want. Talk about how bad we are ALL U WANT. Coz in GOD'S eyes, you all who GOSSIP are just pure ADULTRESSES!

My sins and my husband's sins are our own to bear.. but u guys are the worst! You who are involved won't try to understand us and accuse us are much worse! Worse than our own sins. At least we keep to ourselves and try not to get involved in other's affairs, especially to those who accuses us.

THE MORE YOU TALK BAD ABOUT US BEHIND OUR BACKS, THE MORE SINS YOU PUT ON YOURSELVES.

And oh, by the way, YOU WON'T KNOW THE WHOLE TRUTH UNTIL YOU HEAR IT FROM THE HORSES MOUTH ITSELF, YOU COWARDS!

I don't care who you people are anymore. You all who talk bad and accuses us with your own assumptions are liable to be sued for demoralising reputation.

So, from now, I JAGA TEPI KAIN SENDIRI (which I have done so for so many years since), and you all got no right to accuse us of anything. We've so much kept to ourselves. Only going out with close friends that WOULDN'T BACKSTAB US as we've done everything possible to help friends and never try to hurt them. WELL, I'M SORRY IF U ALL ARE A BIT TOO OVERLY SENSITIVE about our usual jokes and concerns. WE'LL STAY OUT OF YOUR WAY FOR GOOD! Thanks for nothing!

SEE U ALL WHO ARE INVOLVED, IN COURT!